Yes, you read right. YOUNG. SIINGLE. ADULTS. No this doesn't mean that David and I have decided to be single again. We just happen to be the lucky, YOUNG, ADULT couple that have the privledge of advising these amazingly talented, wonderful, fun, and most enjoyable people in our ward. When we began as advisors we were very much worried about the spiritual well being of these people. We were focused on getting them on missions, or married, or just active in church. Don't get me wrong, this is still our goal, but we just found that solely focusing on the spiritual side wasn't working as well as we'd like. We found that the YSA were less responsive to setting goals the more we talked about them, so we went back to the Lord to recieve guidance. We realized that the age old saying of "People don't care about how much you know unless they know how much you care," or something to that effect. So we began to focus on the YSA as individuals, seeing each one as an individual person instead of all of them as a collective whole. Thanks to our wonderful education at BYUH we knew exactly how to go about building that relationship with each YSA. Activites to foster friendships and a sense of belonging became our number one focus. We have tried to do one at least once a week. Our first one was a visit to the Hibiscus Festival here in Suva. We only had 1 YSA come so we recruited Langi (David's younger brother) to make the numbers even. The next week as people heard of the activity enthusiasm increased. The next week we went to the pool.


Thanks to the underwater camera that we got from Mom and Dad we were able to document our fun adventure. Since I was the only girl there, I was designated the official photographer. Good thing I like taking pictures, and good thing these guys are photo freaks. LOL. We had a great time swimming from 1 pm - 6 pm. Then had simple egg sandwiches for dinner/lunch. We then decided to go to the movies and watched Into the Storm. We had a 2 hour wait for the movie, so the boys all knocked out in the lobby of the theater while I watched over them. It was a good day. Thankfully here in Fiji it's common to hang out in the lobby while waiting for your movie, so we didn't look homeless. LOL.
Well since the pool was such a big hit, we knew that we had to up our game for the next activity. Thankfully Moji was visiting from Nadi and gave us the great idea of going to Colo I Suva. It's a local waterfall that is beautiful. Well, it's actully 3 waterfalls into 3 different pools. We got a larger crowd this time so it was even more fun.
The last 3 photos are the 3 pools. We spent most of our time at the last one. It was so fun!! It had a rope swing that hung over the pool. The kids here are crazy and do some crazy tricks. The most insane one would have to be Luke Nakauciri. Here's a video.
He would have gone higher in the tree, but that's how he got injured the last time. Thankfully everyone came home in one piece this time. It was one of the most tireing the days here in Fiji, but one of the most rewarding. As we did the 3 hour walk home we were able to talk with each of the YSA individually and get to know them on a more personal level.
Our latest activity has been taking place after institute. I taught the YSA how to play a game called live mafia. It's a combination of Hide & Seek and Cops & Robbers. Most of our YSA are boys, so they have a great time playing this game. But the best part of the game is the arguements that they come up with to either blame each other or to defend themselves. However the funniest part for me is the amount of cheating that goes on. LOL I've played this game on several occasions, and have never even thought of half the ways that these guys have to cheat. In one game they all knew who the killer was, but kept blaming other prople, just so that the game could go on longer. These YSA are truly hillarious.
Our goal still remains the same of what we would like to accomplish with them, but now they know that we care, and slowly but surely we are building them up to reach their full potential. Our next activity is this coming Saturday, so I look forward to the pictures and menories I'll be able to capture there.